You won't see his eyes glaze over when you start an in-depth comparative analysis of Beyoncé's discography because he genuinely cares about what you have to say.2. It doesn't matter if he's talking to his boss or the waitress who's covering your table, it's "please" and "thank you" all day and all night. Not only is he great at listening to your problems, he's always there to give honest, thoughtful guidance when you ask for it. He's generally down to do things with you that other guys make every conceivable effort to avoid. Flowers, breakfast in bed, random notes left around your room — he does it all. When you want to spend the morning lying in bed and talking about Li Fe*~, it's shy guys FTW. He understands that showing emotion is a thing that humans do. Shy guys like to receive praise and recognition in a humble way, which just makes you want to brag about how fucking great he is. He's basically a human advent calendar, and each day, you find out a tantalizing new detail you never knew about him before. Not comfortable talking about yourself when you meet someone new? First of all, your interest in her and her life will be a refreshing change of pace from all the other self-absorbed guys she’s ever dated.
Okay, this next piece of advice may feel counterintuitive to everything else included in this article.If the idea of approaching a woman you don’t know feels overwhelming, take it slow.Practice making and maintaining eye contact with a member of the opposite sex every day for a week.Self-assuredness, and a good self-esteem is a powerful aphrodisiac for many men.It's all right to relay your hopes and dreams for the future on the about me section of your user profile, but don't ramble on and on about little details.So while you may need to work on your level of self-comfort and confidence to get a woman’s attention, always remember that your natural-born bashful tendencies will be appreciated by the right woman.Instead of apologizing for being shy, embrace it, work with it, and be yourself.Also, the online dating sites available have an infinite number of different types.They not only cater to regular men and women, now they have targeted demographic groups, such as those who want to marry millionaires and people looking for affairs.If that means joining a gym to lose a couple of pounds, splurging on a few stylish new wardrobe pieces that make you feel better about yourself, and/or taking a class on presenting with confidence, go for it.Women are drawn to men who genuinely seem to like themselves without being boastful or arrogant.