The main thing that matters is that a person has an attractive face, which you seem to have.Women often have a misconception that most guys like skinny girls.
Each day thousands of Black singles visit in search of singles in their area.
and i'm not like obese but i'm definelty not skinny. IF you don't have an extreme excess to get rid of like many online who seem to have given up on themselves, then it may only take about 6 months or so to get back into the fit shape you can be proud of and be back to being a heartbreaker again... You mean you have EXCESS skin/fat in places, correct?
If that's all, maybe you should try a better fitness routine to tone and get fit& healthy, and therefore feel more confident about yourself.
A lot of guys, in fact, prefer curvy women who have meat on them as it is a more feminine look.
I don't see why women are so obsessed with looking as flat-bodied as a 10-year old boy.