She is the author of ‘French Seduction Made Easy‘ and is passionate about sharing her expertise on communicating well in relationships especially via flirty texting.She runs the website where she makes the art of seduction look easy peasy.By encouraging people to tell stories about themselves, you not only learn about their history but also about them from the way they talk about their lives. What kind of books (TV shows/movies/video games) do you like? It can be hard to figure out what to ask without making it seem like you're interrogating your date.
Going back to the good old questions, instead of asking him or her something dull such as “what did you eat for lunch? Ask “Why are you a cat person when everyone knows that dog people make better lovers? Nothing kills a conversation early on like pushing boundaries waaaay too far (like being outright mean or vulgar).
There aren't really any right or wrong answers; again, the way these questions are answered tell you more about a person than the answers themselves. If I asked you to cook me dinner, what would you make me? What's your favorite thing to do on a beautiful Spring/Summer/Fall/Winter day?
These questions are designed to spark the imagination of the person and drift off into speculation. (: be prepared the answer may be "You" and he should get points for quick-witted compliments). If you won the lottery tomorrow, what would be the first thing you would do with the money? What do you think is the biggest problem in the world today? Don't sit down at a restaurant on a first date, order your drinks, and immediately launch into rapid-fire questioning or there may not be a second date (what a total disappointment if you liked their answers! Once you both know you're interested in learning a lot more about one another, consider the more structured "Twenty Questions" type of conversation, whether you're just talking or including it as part of a game.
If you want to see your relationship grow, you'll have to ask questions - lots of them. Learning about someone's past can be tricky; you don't want to seem like you're giving them the third degree, but at the same time you want to know more about them.
of The Couples Institute, recommends playing Twenty Questions with your partner because "They [questions] allow you to discover or rediscover who your partner is." By developing a deeper understanding of your partner's mind and spirit, you could find yourself more deeply in love. Where's the best place you ever went with your parents, and what did you do there?