I worked with this guy in the summer and we became good friends. and I never got the vibe that he was into me as anything more than a friend. It sounds like this guy was tipsy, horny, and flirty. and asked you to come over, I’ll bet all of Earth’s money that he wasn’t asking you to come over as a friend. Maybe he was too drunk, too shy, or too surprised that you actually came over to seduce you. Why didn’t he pursue you once he sobered up and why has he ghosted? Maybe he felt embarrassed that he’d booty-texted in the middle of the night. Probably, he just likes you as a friend — and doesn’t generally see you that way, and maybe doesn’t know how to text that.I knew he had a girlfriend so other than very harmless flirting, we were just friends. that same night and asked me to come over to just chill. Then, when I left his house, he sent me some very flirty texts and told me I should have stayed over, and if he ever got the chance he would take it. You two had been clear that you were just friends, but once he had a few drinks, he probably figured: Why not? Now that he’s made your friendship awkward, he might not know what to say.We've stopped having sex too, and most of the time I don't even feel like being around him ... Whenever we fight, he is always so willing to make it work. Is it fair to end it when he doesn't even deserve it?
Specifically, I worry that things aren’t as clear-cut as you may want to believe. Especially since you just moved to a city a few months ago, I worry that it might be harder for you to get a handle on the whole picture.
I moved to a new city a few months ago and have made some good friends.
One of them was married but he never talked about his wife.
One night, we were out just the two of us, and he told me his wife had been traveling for work for the past few months and their marriage was basically over. He said he had dealt with all his feelings and had accepted it. We decided that we'd be exclusively sleeping with each other, and we go on dates and spend a lot of time together, but he doesn't want anything more serious.
His wife is leaving again soon and they're technically separated, but I know they obviously still talk.