Rose M., a 28-year-old from Vancouver, British Columbia, who works at a luxury-car dealership, tells me her favorite scenario is that of the naughty housekeeper (she suggests going with the obvious by bending over a little too far in your frilly black-and-white skirt to dust something).
"I actually used to be a housekeeper when I was younger, and it was something I fantasized about but never brought to fruition," she says.
), do you want a verbal reaming or a light spanking on the butt?
Same goes for when you're playing a role that triggers an emotional response.
There's never been a safer time to confront my fears.
I've been in a loving relationship with my fiancé, Christopher, for more than a year now.
Telling your partner that you have a doctor fantasy isn't enough—through no fault of your partner's, you could find yourself in the company of Dr. "Maybe a doctor is sexy to you because he's in control but generally clinical and sort of cold, so the idea of roiling his passion through your desirability is sexy," says Kerner.
We don't see each other every day, and doing that builds excitement and is basically e-mail foreplay for our next visit." Believe it or not, they have a shared Google Docs spreadsheet that details all the scenarios they want to try.But for beginners, Laurie Watson, a sex therapist in North Carolina, says a trick that always works for her clients is heading to a hotel bar and pretending to be strangers picking each other up for the first time—just make sure one of you reserves a room ahead of time.Then, there are always classic power dynamics to fall back on, like cop and criminal or doctor and patient—take your pick.Here's their advice and how I put it to the test.1.First, Figure Out Your Fantasy If you already have a sexy scenario in mind, you can skip ahead…show-offs!By entering RPH, it is assumed that you are at least 18 years of age or older.Most people who know what I do for a living would expect my closet to be stocked with sexy getups—a naughty nurse costume, a frilly maid's uniform, a too-tight secretary outfit, you name it.Surely, a sexpert like myself would have tried her hand at some erotic theater, right? What if I started giggling…or worse, what if he started laughing at me?In fact, I've never come even remotely close to playing make-believe in the bedroom. It's challenging enough to feel comfortable being yourself during sex, let alone someone else. All these anxieties have kept me from giving it a try, until now.The owners of this site are not, in any way, responsible for the materials that are posted, said, and/or downloaded within chat.Content on the site is managed by the users and RPH is not responsable for it.