Always remember that when you want to say hi to that cute girl, or ask a girl out, regardless of the outcome she will be sweet about it. They assume that if they tell a woman of their inexperience, she’ll laugh at them and turn down sex for that reason alone.
While it’s true there are a small percentage of women who prefer experienced men, the vast majority of women out there, I’d say at least 85%, do not give a about shit how sexually experienced you are.
Worse, it may actually turn them off if you tell them otherwise. For every woman who doesn’t like you, there’s another right around the corner who will. A super hot girl will reject you in a bar (or bookstore or dating site) and then 30 seconds later the next super hot girl you hit up, who is just as hot and in the exact same location as the first girl, will really like you.
I’ve already gone deep into this concept on my free podcasts, so to get the full detail you should listen to those. This happens to me all the time on the online dating sites and to this day it still blows me away.
It is you creating a pathway for women to be comfortable with their desire to have sex with you as fast as possible without judgment. Societal Programming trains women to be sweet and polite to strangers.
This is one of the very rare times Societal Programming actually works in your favor. A lot of younger guys are very ashamed that they are virgins, or have only had sex with three women or whatever.
Divorced or married, it made little difference, these women were radically different than the happy high school girls I was used to. Seriously, going from high school directly into the corporate world was a huge culture shock. In the corporate world, suddenly I heard women talk about how stupid men were and how all men were liars. I had no idea how to dance but I did my best to dance with Darkhair. I was too much of a pussy and didn’t know how to follow through.
I wasn’t prepared for such a sheer change in outlook. While grinding up on Modelchick, Chris saw us and shook his head as if it say “No, no, that’s not how you do it you dumbass.” Then he walked over to us, and shoved us together. Chris laid Modelchick, plus many others, probably Darkhair too.
So in my early 20s, I was the typical beta stumbling around in the dark, trying to do what felt right (which is almost always wrong when it comes to women), not getting laid very much beyond when I got lucky. Only much later in life did I discover it’s actually the exact opposite.
You’re not.) This is a huge misunderstanding about the word “seduction”. In most cases, they’ll be happy to have someone to talk to.
The art of seduction is not getting women to do what they don’t want to do. As a younger guy, I always expected that if I walked up to a woman and said hi, or asked a woman out on a date, she would get upset, possibly insult me, and possibly cause a scene. As experienced daygame guys will tell you, 99% of women are extremely polite when you open them or ask them out, and are often flattered even if they aren’t attracted to you.
I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.
Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.