I would hang out with my older brother, who at the time had just graduated college. Darkhair’s tits pressed up against me and she gave me what they used to call the Doggy Dinner Bowl eyes. Chris kept on inviting me to parties and clubs and I kept saying no. I could have pulled so much high-quality ass as young guy had I just let Chris help me.
He was talking with a big simile about how college was a “woman-fest”. When I was in my early 20s, before I started my business, I was a low-level manager at the corporate office of a big bank. I thought there was no way “meeting up with girls” would be that easy. When we arrived at the club there was a group of four hot, eager, young girls waiting for us, all dressed to the nines. Seriously, it would have taken years off my learning curve. There are a few other things I may address in future posts.
There were some dating books back then, but they were pretty terrible.
Not that I read very many, but the ones I remember taking a look at were dreadfully bad.
I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.
Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.
Moreover, some women actually prefer less experienced guys, because they think (rightly or wrongly) that they’re not “players”. In my early twenties as a virgin beta male, I lied to the woman I lost my virginity to and told her I had sex with “ten women” already. This turned her right back on again, and we had sex, and I lost my V-card. I was so ashamed about what I did that it took me many years to actually come clean and tell her she had been my first. If you’re not that experienced, don’t pretend to women that you’re more experienced than you are.
Your guy buddies might give you some shit about it, fine, but women really don’t mind.
I’ve already gone deep into this concept on my free podcasts, so to get the full detail you should listen to those. This happens to me all the time on the online dating sites and to this day it still blows me away.
I’ll just summarize here by saying that if a woman rejects you, your irrational reaction is that ALL women will reject you. When I was doing daygame I had the exact same experience. That new girl you’re seeing you think is Not Like The Rest™ is actually JUST like the rest.
There’s thousands more just like her in your city alone.
You don’t need to take any crap from her (unless you’re a high-drama guy who likes crap). Just because you like her, doesn’t mean you need to be her boyfriend.
There’s another girl just as hot, smart, and cool right around the corner who won’t give you any crap. Just because you love her, doesn’t mean you have to move in with her.